Category Archives: African-American Men

WHAT ARE THE 3 QUALITIES BLACK MEN LOOK FOR WHEN SEARCHING FOR A BLACK WIFE: A MANHOOD RACE CULTURE INTERACTIVE EVENT

I have learned to avoid discussing a few topics in public because of their uncanny ability to cause people to lose their minds. One of the foremost of these taboo topics is Black Love issues, particularly if it calls for any criticism of Black women.

Trust me when I say that if you want to get emotions flowing and possibly a good cuss out, lay any portion of the blame for failed relationships and marriages at the feet of Black women. It is not a stretch of the imagination to say that such an encounter holds the potential to leave your ego bruised, your soul battered, and your sleep pattern disrupted. So, I avoid this topic unless it occurs with Black women that are in my inner-circle.

Yet, I realize that this extremely rough terrain called Black Love must be covered if Black America is ever to come together and create loving families that most agree are the building blocks to strong children and a stronger nation. So, I thought it was somewhat fortuitous when Professor Carl Tone Jones agreed to lead tonight’s Manhood, Race, and Culture Interactive session to discuss the three qualities that Black men are looking for in a Black wife.

I, like other members in our robust and dedicated intellectual community, are looking forward to hearing Professor Carl Tone Jones’ presentation as it promises to be an initial step for many Black women to hear and ask questions of Black men regarding what are the qualities that lead them to pursue some women for matrimony eagerly and to avoid others by any means necessary.

This an open invitation for you to join us tonight (January 7, 2021) at 7:30 EST / 6:30 CST for what promises to be a vibrant and intellectually stimulating discussion as we kick off our initial 2021 session of Manhood, Race, and Culture Interactive.

Click HERE to gain access to the discussion.

Dr. James Thomas Jones III

 

WHAT ARE 3 QUALITIES BLACK MEN ARE LOOKING FOR WHEN SEARCHING FOR A BLACK WIFE

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Manhood, Race, and Culture Interactive

Manhood, Race, and Culture Interactive is pleased to invite you to its initial event for 2021. This interactive discussion promises to be an exhilarating and enlightening discussion addressing the question of What are three qualities that Black Men are looking for in a Black wife. Tonight’s discussion (Thursday, January 7 @ 7:30 EST / 6:30 CST) will be led by esteemed filmmaker and intellectual Professor Carl Tone Jones. Please click HERE to gain entry.

Once again, the riveting ninety-minute discussion covering What are three qualities that Black Men are looking for in a Black wife is scheduled for Thursday, January 7th @ 7:30 EST / 6:30 CST.

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TO RECEIVE THE VACCINATION OR NOT? THAT IS THE QUESTION FACING BLACK MEN

It is reasonable to state that being a Black man in America is one of the most difficult tasks known to humankind. Black men are the most likely group to be incarcerated while also having the shortest lifespan of all Americans. Although numerous studies have explained why the above is true, what matters most to Black men and those who love them is that this situation exists.

Numerous reminders accentuate the differing experiences and perspectives between Black men and their countrymen. The latest reminder is the global pandemic. Black men seem cursed to receive a heaping dose of misfortune at every turn. This harsh reality creates pessimism in some of the most unusual spaces.

The development of a Covid-19 vaccine is another moment when skepticism rears its ugly head among Black men. Although I am no conspiracy theorist, you know the kind that places their faith in sketchy plots of a secret organization seeking to destroy Black men for no good reason, even I do not consider Black men’s hesitancy to receive the vaccination a sign of paranoia. The historical record offers undeniable proof that Black men should be very concerned about contacting the U.S. medical industry.

An examination of the American health care system reveals many moments of unethical behavior regarding Black men. The most infamous occurrence of medical malpractice is the Tuskegee Study. Consider the information provided by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) regarding what has become known as the Bad Blood experiment.

Tuskegee Study, 1932-1972

Nearly 65 years after the U.S. Public Health Service Syphilis Study at Tuskegee began, President Clinton apologized for the U.S. government’s role in the research study, which was carried out in Macon County, Alabama, from 1932 to 1972.

The United States Public Health Service, in trying to learn more about syphilis and justify treatment programs for blacks, withheld adequate treatment from a group of poor black men who had the disease, causing needless pain and suffering for the men and their loved ones.

The backdrop of medical malpractice serves as the foremost reason many Black men view the arrival of coronavirus vaccines with extreme skepticism. The CDC’s call for all adults to receive the vaccination by the end of 2021 increases those concerns.

The skepticism of Black men will be expressed in a host of ways, such as refusing to be guinea pigs to the medical industry. Others couch their concerns via statements that touch upon systemic racism. For example, a close acquaintance recently shared feelings that the vaccine will be given to Whites first, and if there is anything leftover, then Blacks will receive those scraps. Regardless of the argument Black men associate with, the point remains that they have good reason to proceed with caution. I am certain that health care professionals will be frustrated when their best attempts to “educate” Black men about why they need to be vaccinated causes them to become further entrenched in resistance.

The medical profession is well aware of Black men’s hesitancy to trust new vaccines, hence developing a public relations campaign to convince Black men that the new vaccine is not a return to the unjustifiable medical practices of yesteryear. Medical professionals realize no reassurance for Blacks is to be found in the historical record. There is no persuasive argument capable of convincing the masses of Black men to abandon their varying levels of skepticism. When placed within the proper historical context, the fears of Black men are understandable.

In fact, the alluded to distrust of everything is one of the many adaptations Black men have made as they seek to increase their chances of survival in the land of the free and the home of the brave.

Dr. James Thomas Jones III

© Manhood, Race, and Culture, 2020.

A Dystopian Love Thang: Is a Romantic and True Love Possible for Blacks While They Are Being Oppressed in America?

Click here to gain access to tonight’s meeting. Programming begins at 7:30 est / 6:30 cst.

I will admit that when Dr. Kaarin Perkins offered to lead last week’s MRCi (Manhood, Race, and Culture interactive) session. I had no idea of what to expect. The topic of Dystopian Love was a terminology that I had never heard prior. Yet, I had no doubt whatsoever that the discussion would be a robust one as Black men and Black women attempted to answer Dr. Perkins’ piercing questions regarding love in Black America without placing blame at the feet of Black men or Black women. According to our esteemed presenter,

It matters not whose fault it is. What matters is what we are going to do to straighten this mess out.

Please click here to gain access to the meeting that begins tonight (12/10) at 7:30 est / 6:30 cst

It would be a gross understatement to say that those who participated in the session were likewise clueless of what Dystopian Love was. Hence, we were all illuminated when Dr. Perkins explained that Dystopian is the opposite of Utopian. When one seriously considers the endless trials-and-tribulations facing Blacks in America, a host of questions should arise.

Black America’s existence in a dystopian world makes one wonder could things get any worse in Black society.

According to Dr. Perkins,

We have arrived at a Dystopian moment in Black America. The in-fighting and blaming of each other needs to stop and we must shift our focus toward rebuilding. It matters not who has caused today’s problems between Black men and Black women. We need to focus on how do we build each other up and generate a community that encourages Love for its members.

So, it should be expected that last week’s presentation focused on the following question.

  • Is it possible for genuine love to develop between Black men and Black women in a Dystopian moment?

As we all anticipated, Dr. Perkins’ presentation was phenomenal and sparked enlightened discussion from all that were in attendance. I am delighted to say that the robust discussion has prodded Dr. Perkins to return for Part II tonight.

The program is scheduled to begin tonight — December 10, 2020 — at 7:30 est & 6:30 cst. To gain access to the ninety-minute Zoom session click here and come prepared to be enlightened, engaged, and challenged in Black America’s love matters.

A Dystopian World of Love: How Do We Lay The Groundwork to Make Love Possible in Black America?

Please join Manhood, Race, and Culture INTERACTIVE (MRCi) for an engaging discussion by educator and relationship expert Dr. Kaarin Perkins on December 3rd @ 7:30 EST //// 6:30 CST.

According to Dr. Perkins, “We have arrived at a Dystopian moment in Black America. The in-fighting and blaming of each other needs to stop and we must shift our focus toward rebuilding. It matters not who has caused today’s problems between Black men and Black women. We need to focus on how do we build each other up and generate a community that encourages Love for its members.

Click on the following link to gain access to Tonight’s presentation on how do Black people create a context where relationships and love are the new normal.

Is Black Love possible? Can Black men love Black women? Can we bypass the blame game and rebuild our community and ourselves.

To gain access to tonight’s presentation click here. Once again, the program begins tonight December 3rd @ 7:30 EST //// 6:30 CST and lasts for 90 minutes — We are committed to starting the program on time and ending on time.