In Honor of Biz Markie: Rest Well My Friend

I am truly saddened to hear of Biz’s passing, he is one of those artists that moved Hip-Hop culture in new and inventive ways. Possibly the most disturbing aspect of Biz’s career is that recent generations only know him for “Just a Friend” his depth and musical breadth was so much wider and vast than that.

So, I wanted to share something that many may have never heard from Biz and decided on this recording. Please enjoy the heck out of this because “can you feel it? Nothing can save ya for this is the season for catching the vapors. And since I got time what I’m gon’ do is tell you…

MRCi: The Turkey Leg Hut Discussion (July 15, 2021)

Most outsiders do not recognize that there is a decades-long war occurring in Black America. Yes, I am alluding to the same conflict that famed comedian Chris Rock termed a Civil War between “Black folk and Niggas.” Experience has taught me that Black folk and N-words have nothing in common.

As you know, every war is composed of a series of battles of varying significance that make up the war. The most recent conflict in Black America’s Civil War occurred at Houston’s hip Third-Ward eatery, The Turkey Leg Hut. It is difficult to explain to outsiders the popularity of this local restaurant to Houstonians. It is THE PLACE TO BE.

The allure of this place causes hundreds of Black folks, even my beautiful cousin Lauren Evans, to stand in line under the legendary oppressive Houston heat for hours every single day. Such popularity has led to a somewhat predictable, yet still unfortunate, issue. The alluded to issue is that there is a segment of Black folks who have adopted an unbelievably dysfunctional culture that renders them an embarrassment to the rest of Black America.

The brouhaha occurring at The Turkey Leg Hut surrounds establishment owners Nakia and Lynn Price’s decision to institute a dress code and code of conduct for patrons. The repeated complaints of the customer base forced the owners of this Black-owned business into publicly detailing what was and was not acceptable within their establishment. According to Nakia Price,

We never governed what people wore before, but now it’s becoming increasingly worse. What we’re seeing is the extreme, like shorts so short that literally your butt is hanging out or shredded shorts with no underwear. When did it become OK to just wear this in public, period, let alone a restaurant? The dress code that we implemented is pretty lax. The only thing that we’re asking is that you have some respect.

Now let’s be clear on precisely what Nakia and Lynn Price are asking of Black folks. The Turkey Leg Hut’s dress code and code of conduct are as follows:

  • No excessively revealing clothing (shorts must cover your entire bottom).
  • No obscene language or baggy clothing.
  • No house attire (including wave caps, du-rags, house shoes or shower caps).
  • No exposed undergarments (including sports bras, bras, panties or garments resembling these items).
  • No swimwear of any kind.

It appears that somewhere along the way, the sense of decency and appropriateness eroded into a sea of nothingness.

Maybe this phenomenon of cultural erosion could be attributed to educated Blacks’ flight to suburban areas during the 70s. Perhaps it was the integration of schools after the Brown v. Board of Education decisions (1954 & 1955). Dare we join the chorus of White racists who fervently believe that there is something intrinsically wrong with Black folks? I dispute the latter notion with my entire being.

I attribute the aforementioned cultural dysfunction of a specific segment of our community to their investment in a dysfunctional culture whose ascension is aided by many things.

  • Lack of knowledge of self.
  • The influence of social media and reality television.
  • Engagement with a popular culture that denigrates Black life in every way imaginable.
  • The absence of socialization that naturally flows from a healthy Black family.
  • A misled cadre of Black clergy who preach a prosperity gospel instead of one based on morality.

One of the surest indicators of how far some within our community strayed from a familiar path of civility are the public outcries that installing a dress code and code of conduct by the owners of The Turkey Leg Hut is anti-Black.

Nothing could be more ludicrous.

It appears that a culture of inappropriateness has become synonymous with Blackness. The adopters of such dysfunction are historically illiterate and culturally backward. The pushback against calls for public decency has undoubtedly caused innumerable graves of our ancestors to be disturbed.

Never in the existence of Black people have we seen such a determination to be uncivilized toward one another. As I have written in this space repeatedly, I am unconcerned with the maneuvers of White racists. My focus is a proactive one that calls for all Blacks to work toward the liberation of Black America.

So, I hope that you comprehend how heartbreaking it is to see my people fight for the right to behave in a manner that guarantees the continuation of their bottom-rung social status.

James Thomas Jones III, Ph.D.

©Manhood, Race, and Culture, 2021

IS THE DEMAND FOR PROPER CONDUCT AND DRESS A SIGN OF ANTI-BLACKNESS? IT IS TIME TO HAVE THIS LONG OVERDUE DISCUSSION

Feel free to join MRCi (Manhood, Race, and Culture Interactive) tonight (July 15, 2021) @ 7:30 (EST) — 6:30 pm (CST) for a much-needed discussion over the recent Manhood, Race, and Culture posting

HAVE WE SUNK THIS FAR?: WHY BLACK FOLKS HAVE ACCUSED THE BLACK OWNERS OF THE TURKEY LEG HUT OF BEING ANTI-BLACK

Please click the above link to read the posting that revolves around the owners of a Black-owned business being accused of anti-Blackness due to their installation of a dress code and code of conduct within their establishment. Does such a charge hold any water at all?

Tonight’s discussion promises to be a riveting one focused by us about us.

Join us as we discuss this pressing matter.

The program begins tonight (Thursday, July 15) @ 7:30 (EST) — 6:30 pm (CST). Click here to access the meeting or use the information listed below.

Meeting ID: 353 334 8869
Passcode: 1YF4BG

The Hypocrisy Continues: Why Many of Those Criticizing Stephen A. Smith are Guilty of Harboring Similar Thoughts on Race

We have seen this before, and there is much to be learned.

ESPN’s Stephen A. Smith has once again proven that those speakers who prefer theatrics over discipline will eventually allow their loudmouth nature to write a check that their ass can’t possibly cover. As I mentioned above, we have seen this situation where Stephen A. Smith, the noted ESPN loudmouth, allows his emotions and misplaced enthusiasm to write a check that his ass can’t possibly cover. The most apparent sign of bouncing such a check appears to be addressing a national audience and apologizing for the statement. Smith’s lack of discipline was displayed when he attempted to walk back the following comments spewed at Japanese baseball sensation Shohei Ohtani.

I understand that baseball is an international sport itself in terms of participation, but when you talk about an audience gravitating to the tube or to the ballpark, to actually watch you, I don’t think it helps that the number one face is a dude that needs an interpreter, so you can understand what the hell he’s saying in this country.

The backlash to Smith’s comments was swift. The uproar was so significant that his superiors forced Smith to apologize to the entire Asian and Asian American community.

The irony of a Black man hurling familiar vitriol is ironic. Yet, it also provides an opening for American citizens who have been basted in racial/ethnic identity politics to take a peek in the mirror.

For some reason, Stephen A. Smith’s misspeak aimed at a non-White person led me to what I consider to be an essential question about race/ethnic identity and power in a nation where a White numerically superior population has terrorized their adversaries.

The question is as follows.

Is it possible for African-Americans to form alliances with other non-White groups who have endured different variants and levels of prejudice, discrimination, and institutionalized racism within the United States of America? Can a good case be made for non-Whites to join together to overthrow a White majority that has historically monopolized anything worth having due to their numerical superiority?

It seems a simple proposition for Black, Brown, Red, and Yellow people forming an unprecedented coalition to disrupt White folks politico-economic monopolies. Fortunately for Whites, what Fred Hampton, Co-Chairman of the Chicago Branch of the Black Panther Party, characterized as a “Rainbow Coalition” has never occurred.

Where political expediency and sophistication would prove beneficial to all non-Whites, historically-based racial animosity has sat like a heavy stone, much like the boulder that Sisyphus repeatedly failed to push out of the valley. For those interested in figuring out why such a coalition has never formed, it appears that each of these groups learned that xenophobia was the most reliable currency in this foreign land called America. Additionally, it is difficult to argue against the reality that new arrivals, regardless of their race/ethnicity, quickly realize that there is political and economic strength in numbers. Most importantly, the most reliable rally point for any group in this increasingly diverse nation is racial identity, not Class. Unfortunately for numerically superior poor and working-class people, regardless of their racial/ethnic identities, Race/ethnicity has always trumped Class. Not even the economic misery wrought by greedy Capitalists during the Great Depression lessened American’s allegiance to the existing system.

The above realities leave me with no choice but to tip my hat to W.E.B. DuBois, the most extraordinary mind ever developed by the American academy, for his cryptic prophecy delivered in The Souls of Black Folk. According to DuBois,

The problem of the twentieth-century will be that of the color line – the relation of the darker to the lighter races of men in Asia and Africa, in America and the islands of the sea.

Although rarely spoken about in the public arena, DuBois’s projection held throughout the 20th Century and will most likely continue through a significant portion of the new millennium.

It is time that American citizens held an honest discussion regarding matters of race and ethnic identity. Although cliché to say, it is the only path to even a tiny hope of extinguishing the smoldering, yet rarely articulated in public, hatred of groups actively competing for what they erroneously perceive to be limited politic-economic resources.

So, I must tell you that I am unsurprised by Stephen A. Smith’s statement about Ohtani, nor his desperate attempt to save his career by denouncing himself a day later. I can guarantee you that the majority of freedom-loving Americans who still enjoy America’s favorite pastime had little to no problem with Smith’s words. I honestly believe that you would hear similar commentary if more Americans did not consider it tantamount to career suicide or a smooth path to pariah status. However, a cautionary refusal to take a public stance on a controversial matter for the sake of self-preservation is a quantum leap from having the demons of xenophobia, misogyny, and racism exorcised from one’s soul. The nirvana of a post-racial America is nowhere on the horizon for either you or me.

Rest assured that a significant portion of the angry horde that rushed to condemn Stephen A. Smith’s comments harbor similar feelings. The only difference between them and Smith is that they are too savvy to utter such things in front of a national audience; their judgments are stated only behind closed doors. We must remember that the exercise of restraint or silence when discussing contentious racial matters in public, an ability that I doubt Smith will ever master, is not synonymous with the absence of bigotry or an embrace of racial equality.

James Thomas Jones III, Ph.D.

©Manhood, Race, and Culture, 2021

 

Have We Sunk This Far?: Why Black Folks Have Accused the Black Owners of the Turkey Leg Hut of being Anti-Black

Most outsiders do not recognize that there is a decades-long war occurring in Black America. Yes, I am alluding to the same conflict that famed comedian Chris Rock termed a Civil War between “Black folk and Niggas.” Experience has taught me that Black folk and N-words have nothing in common.

As you know, every war is composed of a series of battles of varying significance that make up the war. The most recent conflict in Black America’s Civil War occurred at Houston’s hip Third-Ward eatery, The Turkey Leg Hut. It is difficult to explain to outsiders the popularity of this local restaurant to Houstonians. It is THE PLACE TO BE.

The allure of this place causes hundreds of Black folks, even my beautiful cousin Lauren Evans, to stand in line under the legendary oppressive Houston heat for hours every single day. Such popularity has led to a somewhat predictable, yet still unfortunate, issue. The alluded to issue is that there is a segment of Black folks who have adopted an unbelievably dysfunctional culture that renders them an embarrassment to the rest of Black America.

The brouhaha occurring at The Turkey Leg Hut surrounds establishment owners Nakia and Lynn Price’s decision to institute a dress code and code of conduct for patrons. The repeated complaints of the customer base forced the owners of this Black-owned business into publicly detailing what was and was not acceptable within their establishment. According to Nakia Price,

We never governed what people wore before, but now it’s becoming increasingly worse. What we’re seeing is the extreme, like shorts so short that literally your butt is hanging out or shredded shorts with no underwear. When did it become OK to just wear this in public, period, let alone a restaurant? The dress code that we implemented is pretty lax. The only thing that we’re asking is that you have some respect.

Now let’s be clear on precisely what Nakia and Lynn Price are asking of Black folks. The Turkey Leg Hut’s dress code and code of conduct are as follows:

  • No excessively revealing clothing (shorts must cover your entire bottom).
  • No obscene language or baggy clothing.
  • No house attire (including wave caps, du-rags, house shoes or shower caps).
  • No exposed undergarments (including sports bras, bras, panties or garments resembling these items).
  • No swimwear of any kind.

It appears that somewhere along the way, the sense of decency and appropriateness eroded into a sea of nothingness.

Maybe this phenomenon of cultural erosion could be attributed to educated Blacks’ flight to suburban areas during the 70s. Perhaps it was the integration of schools after the Brown v. Board of Education decisions (1954 & 1955). Dare we join the chorus of White racists who fervently believe that there is something intrinsically wrong with Black folks? I dispute the latter notion with my entire being.

I attribute the aforementioned cultural dysfunction of a specific segment of our community to their investment in a dysfunctional culture whose ascension is aided by many things.

  • Lack of knowledge of self.
  • The influence of social media and reality television.
  • Engagement with a popular culture that denigrates Black life in every way imaginable.
  • The absence of socialization that naturally flows from a healthy Black family.
  • A misled cadre of Black clergy who preach a prosperity gospel instead of one based on morality.

One of the surest indicators of how far some within our community strayed from a familiar path of civility are the public outcries that installing a dress code and code of conduct by the owners of The Turkey Leg Hut is anti-Black.

Nothing could be more ludicrous.

It appears that a culture of inappropriateness has become synonymous with Blackness. The adopters of such dysfunction are historically illiterate and culturally backward. The pushback against calls for public decency has undoubtedly caused innumerable graves of our ancestors to be disturbed.

Never in the existence of Black people have we seen such a determination to be uncivilized toward one another. As I have written in this space repeatedly, I am unconcerned with the maneuvers of White racists. My focus is a proactive one that calls for all Blacks to work toward the liberation of Black America.

So, I hope that you comprehend how heartbreaking it is to see my people fight for the right to behave in a manner that guarantees the continuation of their bottom-rung social status.

James Thomas Jones III, Ph.D.

©Manhood, Race, and Culture, 2021

 

 

 

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